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Conventional wisdom says that we all want to stay in our own homes for as long as we can. That is likely how most of our seniors feel; however it is not always in their best interest to do so. How do we talk with them about the realities and dangers of staying at home once their health is failing, and how do we convince them that a move to an active adult community could be very good – and positive – option.

Part of the challenge with convincing seniors is that….Read More

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Support Group

If you are caring for a love one with Alzheimer’s Disease, joining a support group can be a great way to find people who understand what you are experiencing. The Arbors at Islandia SafeCare Neighborhood hosts a monthly support group for caregivers who can use a little support, understanding and advice. You are not alone. Join us the first Wednesday of every month at 6:30pm. Call 631-323-6022.

1 Is an assisted living community the same thing as a “nursing home?”

No. People who live in a nursing home typically require constant and continual medical care, often involving a registered nurse and other medical professionals. In an assisted living community, seniors may need help with some daily routines such as grooming and getting dressed, but they are not medically dependent. In fact, assisted living residents enjoy an active lifestyle that can be highly fulfilling and enriching. According to Definitive Healthcare, there are more than 33,000 active assisted living facilities across the United States.

2 What does “all-inclusive” mean?

We understand that navigating assisted living can be difficult, and the fees associated with it can be confusing because it usually depends on the amount of care or assistance your loved one needs. This is why we decided to simplify it for you and make all care included in our monthly rate. If your loved one’s needs increase, your rate will not increase because of additional care needs. This all-inclusive plan makes it easier to plan ahead and concentrate on enjoying your time together.

3 My parent gets angry with me every time I bring up the possibility of assisted living. Is this normal?

Keep in mind that your parent has taken care of his own needs, and before that, yours. It’s common for older people not to realize that their ability to care for themselves is not what it used to be. The key in your conversations with your parent is to emphasize the positives of assisted living, such as the opportunity to make new friends and to become involved in a variety of stimulating social events.

4 My parent has become increasingly forgetful, even with routine things. Could assisted living be right for them?

There is a very good possibility that assisted living is the ideal choice for your parent. Assisted living communities, while they encourage independence, can also provide personal help with certain everyday tasks such as bathing and grooming as well as monitoring medication intake.

5 My parent rarely goes anywhere and is usually alone. Could they benefit from group participation?

Most assisted living residences offer a diverse array of fun and educational group-based activities that are designed to appeal to nearly all seniors, fostering friendships while also providing a sense of accomplishment and purpose that can be instrumental in helping older people “feel younger.”

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Is an assisted living community the same thing as a “nursing home?”

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What does “all-inclusive” mean?

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My parent gets angry with me every time I bring up the possibility of assisted living. Is this normal?

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My parent has become increasingly forgetful, even with routine things. Could assisted living be right for them?

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My parent rarely goes anywhere and is usually alone. Could they benefit from group participation?

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