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Conventional wisdom says that we all want to stay in our own homes for as long as we can. That is likely how most of our seniors feel; however it is not always in their best interest to do so. How do we talk with them about the realities and dangers of staying at home once their health is failing, and how do we convince them that a move to an active adult community could be very good – and positive – option.

Part of the challenge with convincing seniors is that….Read More

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If you are caring for a love one with Alzheimer’s Disease, joining a support group can be a great way to find people who understand what you are experiencing. The Arbors at Islandia SafeCare Neighborhood hosts a monthly support group for caregivers who can use a little support, understanding and advice. You are not alone. Join us the first Wednesday of every month at 6:30pm. Call 631-232-3131.

1 Is an assisted living community the same thing as a “nursing home”?

No. People who live in a nursing home typically require constant and continual medical care, often involving a registered nurse and other medical professionals. In an assisted living community, seniors may need help with some daily routines such as grooming and getting dressed, but they are not medically dependent – in fact, assisted living residents enjoy an active lifestyle that can be highly fulfilling and enriching.

2 What does “all-inclusive” mean?

We understand that navigating assisted living can be difficult and the fees associated with it can be confusing, because it usually depends on the amount of care or assistance your loved one needs. This is why we decided to simplify it for you and make all care included in our monthly rate. If your loved one’s needs increase, your rate will not increase because of additional care needs. This all-inclusive rate plan makes it easier to plan ahead and concentrate on enjoying your time together.

3 Dad and I have talked about the possibility of assisted living, and he actually seems to get angry with me every time I bring it up… making such comments as “how could I have the nerve to entertain such a thought.” Is this normal?

Keep in mind that your parent has taken care of his own needs, and before that, yours. It’s common for older people not to realize that their ability to care for themselves is not what it used to be. The key in your conversations with your dad is to emphasize the positives of assisted living, such as the opportunity to make new friends and to become involved in a variety of stimulating social events.

4 Over the past year, my mom has become increasingly forgetful, even with routine things such as personal hygiene and taking her medications. Could assisted living be right for her?

There is a very good possibility that assisted living is the ideal choice for your mom. Assisted living communities, although they encourage independence, can provide personal help with certain everyday tasks such as bathing and grooming as well as monitoring medication intake.

5 Since mom passed away, dad very rarely goes anywhere and for the most part keeps to himself. I was told that assisted living communities emphasize group participation. Could dad benefit from such an approach?

Most assisted living residences offer a diverse array of fun and educational group-based activities that are designed to appeal to nearly all seniors, fostering friendships while also providing a sense of accomplishment and purpose that can be instrumental in helping older people “feel younger”.

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Is an assisted living community the same thing as a “nursing home”?

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What does “all-inclusive” mean?

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Dad and I have talked about the possibility of assisted living, and he actually seems to get angry with me every time I bring it up… making such comments as “how could I have the nerve to entertain such a thought.” Is this normal?

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Over the past year, my mom has become increasingly forgetful, even with routine things such as personal hygiene and taking her medications. Could assisted living be right for her?

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Since mom passed away, dad very rarely goes anywhere and for the most part keeps to himself. I was told that assisted living communities emphasize group participation. Could dad benefit from such an approach?

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