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Couples Living Together

Couples Living Together

How Assisted Living Can be the Answer for Couples

You have worked hard your entire life, raised your family in the home you built, and don’t want to let go of that. But you have also reached a time in your life where you need help with some things, and it is starting to take it’s toll on your spouse. The thought of living apart after 50 years of marriage would be heartbreaking for any couple. Assisted Living may be the answer for you. You can still live together in a shared space, get the help you each need, and stop worrying about your health, medications, bills, house maintenance. You will make new friends, have the opportunity to participate in recreational activities on a daily basis, focus on your wellness and expand your horizons. Less stress=higher quality of life.

Does one spouse have caregiver fatigue?

When one spouse’s health begins to decline and needs help, it is natural for the other spouse to step into the roll of caregiver, without a second thought. Reports have shown that caregivers who are caring for their spouse put in an average of 44 hours per week on caregiving tasks. That is more than a full-time job, in their golden years of retirement. The risk of caregiver fatigue, sometimes called caregiver burnout, in spouses puts them at a higher risk for depression, anxiety, sleep disturbances and heart disease. Caregiver stress can also negatively affect their immune system, leaving them vulnerable to getting sick more often.

What if one spouse requires more care?

At The Arbors you can utilize as little or as much care as you need. Whether you need just medication management or your needs are as complex as bathing, dressing and escorting; you will each have an individualized service plan, but still remain living together in beautiful large accommodations. If the need for memory care arises down the road, The Arbors at Islandia East has Memory Care, The SafeCare Neighborhood, specialized for those with Alzheimer’s or dementia, within the same building.

What kind of accommodations are there for couples?

Growing old together is something that every couple wants to enjoy, and here at The Arbors Assisted Living, we understand how important this is. That is why we offer an array of beautiful private rooms designed to help couples spend their twilight years together in each other’s arms. We have large one bedroom apartments with a living room and kitchenette, large bathrooms and plenty of closet space for the couple. With daily maintenance, weekly laundry, and 3 healthy chef-prepared meals daily, there is no work to be done. You can spend your day socializing, exercising, and learning new things. This new chapter can be seen as a new adventure together, as your home extends far beyond the walls of your apartment; the entire community is available for your use and enjoyment. You can hold hands at movie night, stroll through the courtyard together, pick up a new hobby together or separately. She can enjoy the afternoon chatting with the ladies at the knitting club, while he plays a game of pool or watches a game with the guys. It is truly the ideal situation, everything is at your fingertips at The Arbors.

Come in for a personalized tour of The Arbors at Islandia East

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George Starkesen

“The best part of The Arbors are the people, the programs and the independence. I take daily walks around the neighborhood”

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Doris Crotty

“I like the programs offered, they keep me busy and engaged. I love living here”

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Dolores McCrone

“I’ve made The Arbors my home and I am very content”

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Josephine Foschino

“I love making new friends and enjoying life”

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Gladys Bischoff

“I love my beautiful room and all my friends”

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Diane

“The life of a caregiver is truly very difficult, and with no training, I’m just a daughter, I made it work, but it got to be too much. It was a very difficult decision to have my mom move here. The folks here made my transition very easy, very helpful, very friendly, the staff is great. It was just a real comfort to me when I left. I felt that my mom was in really good hands.  I have such peace of mind knowing that my mom is being well taken care of at The Arbors.”

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Tom

“You can go home and sleep at night knowing your loved one is being taken care of. I am grateful to call The Arbors home for my father-in-law.”

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Joan

“Living at The Arbors has changed my life completely. I am in a new world.  When I started to fall last year, and had to be rushed to the hospital, I was scared. I didn’t want to leave my home. But I’ve made a lot of friends here. It’s a big family. Arbors makes it very comfortable for me. The staff are great, they would take you to the moon if they could. I say my prayers every night and thank God for finding this place for me.”

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Elaine

“I love my apartment at The Arbors. It’s just enough space for me to relax. I spend my days socializing with my new friends in the shared spaces, so my home actually got bigger, not smaller.”

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Helen

“Make new friends, but keep the old. Some are silver and some are gold…Over eight years, I’ve made a lot of friends, new ones, old ones, and I’ve enjoyed all of them immensely. I guess coming into a place like this, you wonder who’s going to be a friend, but then you find so many friends, whether they’re residents or staff. My favorite part about The Arbors is the people that I’ve met, they take good care of me.”

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